THE BIG FIGHT

I am writing after a real long time...it is not that i dont have time but i feel sort of confused as what to write...i am not like my sis who can go on and on ( i mean in writing not words...that to i think she rarely speaks). There are so many fights between my kids( they are 4 now) wrt toys,sleeping spaces,tv channels, car seats, parents(means us) and lots more. i want to relate incidents for each one. Lets start with toys ..By nature the hormones are meant to act in such a way in any kid that a boy gets drawn towards cars and girls towards dolls. No dont get me wrong.. even for my kids fiza is inclined towards dolls and faris towards cars but each time they play something goes wrong......................... when fiza starts playing with dolls she plays very nicely , she makes kitchens and bedroom and then she cooks ..she cooks tea and chicken and oats and then when she is in her real best ENTERS MOHAMMED FARIS.and the hormones gets reversed ...he suddenly becomes interested in everything girly.he tries to snatch away her doll and sits in the kitchen and starts making dishes of his own. Fiza as usual screams( she has a nasal twang and her shrill is all the more nasal)and then enters us ...no no we dont succeed in dissuading faris from playing dolls but we try to pacify Fiza . she rolls and pulls everybodys hair and screams and during the whole drama we get MAD. Similarly when Faris plays ...he is like cutest. he makes roads and hills out of pillows and he uses abacus(toy wala) to make the ubad khabad road and ya he uses keys to start the ignition and he has petrol pumps coz he has to refill every now and then. he has his wonderful mouth which he sincerely uses to make all sorts of noises.then Fiza feels that no ...she cant let him play so well so kick to the petrol station, kick to the various cars and again i cut and paste the whole scenario. we pacify fiza WHY????? coz by the time she kicks his cars , he lands a punch on her face or pulls her hair to the extent that it really comes out in his hands....so u see...hormones doesnt work always.